Enjoying Anal Pleasure, Intimacy & Health

Anal Pleasure

Historically, the anus as a part of the body has been disparaged—literally, the butt of insults and cruel jokes.  Anal sex was explored privately, but publicly viewed as “un-natural” and even taboo. In ground-breaking research Dr. Alfred Kinsey (1948) took anal pleasure out of the closet and described the anus’ erotic potential. Because of the concentration of nerve endings in the anus and its nearness to other pelvic muscles, both men and women were found to experience anal erotic pleasure in masturbation and partner sex.

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Malulani Orton

In the 21st century, knowledge and attitudes about anal pleasure continue to change.  With the writing of an “owner’s manual”, Dr. Jack Morin’s Anal Pleasure & Health now is in its fourth edition (2010) and  continues to  guide individuals and couples wishing to enhance their anal pleasure.  National studies indicate that social  norms are easing up with anal-rectal stimulation and anal intercourse increasingly practiced by young adults, including young heterosexuals who view anal sex as an acceptable form of sexual intimacy  (Lindberg et al, 2008).  However, as with other forms of sexual intimacy—there are risks.

Intimacy and Health

Sshh! No Talking!
“Sshhing” doesn’t work. Real Talk does.

Most of us know that sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy don’t always come together.  We’re aware that talking about what brings us pleasure often enhances our physical intimacy. But feeling emotionally close involves a slightly different kind of communication. In order to have more emotional intimacy, partners must be willing to take risks as they learn mutual trust, caring, acceptance, and importantly, how to ensure health and long life.

Any kind of sex needs to be safe

To protect against sexually transmitted diseases passed through anal intercourse, use a condom and water-based lubricant.